A BIBLICAL ECHO
THE SACRED POWER OF LIKE
Sadly, there is a language our time has nearly forgotten; and yet the heart recognizes it instantly. It is the language of like.
Like is not small. It is not shallow. It is not a stepping-stone to something “more serious.” Like is deep joy in someone or something making itself known.
What Like Truly Expresses
To like something is to say, without strategy or defense:
— I delight in your presence.
— I feel lighter when you are near.
— Nothing needs to happen for this to be good.
— It is good just as it is.
Like expresses ease; it expresses welcome; it expresses the freedom to enjoy another person without any pressure. While love may carry covenant, and love may carry endurance; like carries divine delight.
Why Being Liked Touches So Deeply
To be liked is to be received without explanation. Not for usefulness. Not for gain. Not for a role or output. Just for being.
This is why being liked heals places love alone sometimes cannot. Because like says: You don’t have to earn your place here.
There is rest in that.
Mary and the Courage to Like
Mary of Bethany dared to offer like. She enjoyed Jesus. She felt safe enjoying Him. And she trusted that her enjoyment was welcome. That trust mattered.
Her presence was relaxed. Her closeness was unguarded. Her affection was free. She did not fear being inappropriate, misunderstood, or rejected. She sensed—rightly—that Jesus received divine delight as divine delight.
And He did.
Divine Delight Has Always Been Here
In Eden, God delighted in humanity. Humanity delighted in God. Before duty, before command—there was pure enjoyment.
Like is not a modern invention. It is an ancient memory. It is the joy of companionship. The goodness of being glad together.
Why This Lands So Deeply Today
Many people have learned how to be admired. Some have learned how to be needed. Few have learned how to be liked.
And even fewer have learned how to like freely.
To recover like is to recover innocence. It returns us to love without tension. This is why it feels like light when it appears.
A Listening Room Reflection
As this song plays, let this settle gently:
— Who do you like, simply because they bring joy?
— Where have you felt liked, without demand or expectation?
Liking is joy speaking softly and humbly. It is the smile love wears when it has nothing to prove.
The Lightness of Like
To like someone is to grant them permission to be at ease. No role to fulfill. No outcome to manage. No self to prove. Like says: You may be fully yourself with me. You may breathe. You may rise. Like removes the invisible weight that says: I must be something more to be welcome. It gives one space to grow, freely, naturally, beautifully. This is why like feels like wings. Like gives a soul the permission to soar.
Mary and the Gift of Lightness
When Mary approached Jesus with this lightness, one of the most tender acts of divine like in the Bible unfolded with a rare beauty and preciousness, that it stands out as one of the dearest moments recorded in Scripture:
“And, behold, a woman in the city, which was a sinner, when she knew that Jesus sat at meat in the Pharisee's house, brought an alabaster box of ointment, and stood at his feet behind him weeping, and began to wash his feet with tears, and did wipe them with the hairs of her head, and kissed his feet, and anointed them with the ointment." Luke 7:37-38
Mary and the Freedom of Being Received
Mary lived inside this freedom that like allows one to soar, caught up in the Spirit. She knew she was welcome. She knew her presence was enjoyed. She knew that she did not need to be anything to Jesus other than near. Because she already was near Him in her heart and soul.
Her like did not weigh Jesus down. It rested with Him. And He received it gladly. For none other in the house liked Jesus enough to realize where everythingJesus soon would be headed and what He was about to do.
A Sacred Life Truth
Love may ask us to give our lives. Like tells us our life is already a gift. Both are holy. But like reminds the heart why love is worth carrying.
A Listening Room Rest
As the songs here play, let this idea of like be enough: You already are enough. No adjustment required. No proving necessary. No future demanded.
Like is recognizing what is already good. And eyes and hearts and minds that know this finally can come to rest—and do.
Stay here in this Listening Room and rest. Nothing more is needed.